Written down on the giant white boards in my home office over a month ago was my 2012 mission statement:
“I am going to grow my client’s businesses so we can all continue to profit in doing what we love while supporting others. I am going to teach everything I like to think I know that may help support other humans beings via consulting, yoga and writing, both paid and in service, as I continue to put forth time and effort in strengthening my skills and personal practice. This year is stable and prosperous for me and affords me the time and money to get in my car alone, with my son and/or with others and drive to beautiful places, which will renew, invigorate and inspire me, and where I can choose to work from or simply relax and play.”
It is still pertinent to what I am doing in life (the part about yoga included, even though I have stopped teaching classes for the time being). However, as I was looking at the statement, I decided to erase the whole thing and wrote:
“Do less. More money.”
I sat with that for a few days and then changed it to. Do less. More money. Create more value.
I kept revising it until finally settling on this.
Financial prosperity, more quality free time, and deeper connections by creating more value in the way that I work, play, relax and communicate.
Then I set to work.
As you know, I am no longer teaching a regular weekly yoga class. I took a good hard look at the mental, physical, emotional, spiritual and financial ROI (return on investment ) that was being created for my students and the studio, as well as for myself. The decision I easily came to was that it was time to let the class go and take a step back. This was a big decision for me, as a huge part of my identity was wrapped up in the idea of being a yoga teacher. That was one of the main reasons I felt it would be good to take a step back and look at my true intentions and motivations as a yoga teacher. The other major reason, was how I allowed myself to strangle my truth so that I could be more inline with what I thought a yoga teacher SHOULD be like. The decision to stop teaching at this time turned out to be more freeing than I ever could have imagined.
So I made a another decision. One that felt even bigger, and proved to be more mentally and emotionally challenging.
I deleted my Facebook account.
Don’t laugh!
You have to understand that I have been incredibly active on Facebook. That particular medium of sharing my life and thought streams was a deeply ingrained. There is a lot of great things about being able to connect with people so easily across the globe. The fact is, however, I simply spent too much time and energy on Facebook. It was at a point where I realized what a distraction it was to my work flow, the quality of my relaxation time, and my ability to connect face to face with other human beings.
The first week wasn’t so bad. The second week, I began to feel a sense of loneliness and disconnect, but also found myself having new experiences and conversations with people I would have not had while I was attached to my Facebook account.
By the third week, I was feeling really good about it. I started to notice how the Facebook posting pattens were still ingrained in my brain and I was able to bring my attention to what brought up the desire I had to constantly share my life and experiences with the masses of people I called “friends.” I found myself camping in the beautiful Carrizo Plane. I thought to myself, “Now THIS is a time I wish I had Facebook still!” I wanted to tell all my friends that I was spontaneously camping in the middle of my work week and show them the pictures of the beauty I was witnessing.
Why?
Honestly, I realized that I wanted to brag. I wanted all my friends to be stuck at work and slightly envious of what I was doing. This is a very different intention then when I wrote about my experience on here, where my desire was to inspire and motivate you.
There was one other equation in the decision to leave FB. Less time on Facebook = more time on productive efforts = more prosperity!
Goodbye Facebook.
My next step was moving out of my office and working solely out of my home office. I love my apartment and I have everything I need here. I decided to consolidate more time and energy by getting rid of the unneeded space. Then I turned my attention to the reason I kept my office for so much longer than I needed it and realized, that here too, was an ego related matter. I felt special having an office, as though it somehow made me more professional…and more interesting. Having an office doesn’t make you more professional. Being efficient and effective at your work makes you more professional. As far as being interesting, well, I think you either are or you aren’t by your very nature, and the only person who needs to think you are interesting anyway… is you.
That 3rd decision led to one less thing to think about, one less thing to have to spend time getting to, and one less thing to use for external validation.
Awesome.
After letting go of my regular weekly yoga class, my facebook addiction, and my unnecessary office space. I Started to find myself with an abundance of free time and energy!
I have been suppressing the desire to add more big ticket, too do list items and instead, have used the time to connect in person with friends, practice yoga, listen to classical music and read more books. I managed to finish the 600 page Steve Jobs biography in a day and a half (in between all the other things I had to do) by practicing the speed reading skills listed on Tim Ferris’ blog. I also found myself with the time to take a last minute spontaneous trip to Reno, on a half hour notice, where I learned to play craps and dined on the most expensive and delicious dinner I have had in some time (I didn’t pay for it, but that’s a whole other thing).
Two spontaneous trips in two weeks? Now THIS is what I am talking about!
These seemingly small changes that I have made with the one goal in mind of, “Financial prosperity, more quality free time, and deeper connections by creating more value in the way that I work, play, relax and communicate.” have made dramatic shifts in my life. I feel clearer and more connected. I have more time, more money and better conversation. I don’t work AND live on my computer. I don’t feel like I am spread so thin and I feel MUCH more relaxed.
I guess I always felt like I needed to know what destination I was going towards before I could leave things on the side of the road. Turns out, as I let go of the things I thought I needed, I gave myself more choice in the direction I wanted to travel simply because my pack was lighter.
I am more maneuverable now. Maneuverability. This is the essence of the Yoga of Travel.
Maybe it is time to start thinking less about what you think you need to move forward, and more about what you have that is holding you back.
P.S. Read the Steve Jobs biography. Seriously. Talk about a person with pin point focus, the ability to stay true to himself, and the ability to minimize things in order to make them better.